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Courage to Change - July 2nd

2nd July

AL-Anon helps many of us to identify and change self-destructive behaviour. In my case, procrastination was the source of a great deal of needless anxiety, but with AL-Anon's help I have managed to recognise and change that pattern.

As I learned to focus on myself, I began to pay attention to my own thoughts and feelings. When I felt anxious, I took the time to find out what was causing my discomfort. I realised that I had a habit of postponing unpleasant tasks until the last possible moment. Knowing I would have to perform the task eventually, I found it hard to relax until it was done. I came to see that if I took care of the task right away, I could usually let go of anxiety and appreciate the rest of the day. Old habits can be hard to break. It didn't happen overnight, but as I became more willing to let go of procrastination, my life became more manageable and more enjoyable.

Today's Reminder

If I am getting in the way of my own best interests, a closer look at my behaviour can lead to positive changes. By focusing on myself, I move toward freedom and serenity today.

Quote

"Do not look where you fell, but where you slipped."

Liberian proverb